Stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution (Albert Einstein).

I had friends that I grow up with and we grow up with the same mentality. Some I was actually with them from primary to University and I actually thought those will always be my friends. However when I rediscovered Myself and worked on myself, I started things differently. We would be looking at the same thing and see different things. We would be exposed to the same environment but see different things. Whenever I talked about my goals we would end up arguing because they didn't see things the way I did and at this point I decided to love them from afar as difficult as it was. I had to do it for my own well being. Am not saying they are bad people but our levels become different and since I tried to make them see life from the other side to which they opposed it was only going to a matter of time before they would make me again go back to seeing life from their level so I had to make a painful choice.

It is true that iron sharpens iron. Your association will determine your acceleration in life. You can't be different from the people you associate with. There are people today that I've never met but since we have the same drive, we can talk for hours while today a person I've know all my life seems like a stranger. People will either increase you or decrease you.

People who are pessimistic in thinking try to find fault in the situation they are stuckin and find problems in the solutions that may be offered, or don't even look out for solutions. Since all their eyes can see is the loop holes, not the bigger picture that might help you get out of the problem.

Hence its better, you stay away from pessimistic people, to find solutions and atleast give a try to get out of the problem. Don't feel bad. If you lose other people but find yourself, you win. 

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